Monday, December 31, 2012

Hopefully 2013 ends better than 2012...

 After a happy Christmas, Miss Evie Mae had an awful first experience with throwing up. 
Fourteen hours of it.
Starting at 2 in the morning.

I sat up listening. 
Luckily she was in the same room with us,
otherwise I don't know if I would've heard her over the monitor.
The gurgling soon turned into...well a different sound.
It still wasn't any sound I was familiar with,
but right as she started to make it again I realized what'd been happening,
grabbed Jeff and told him she was throwing up.

The next 14 hours were so sad. 
For a while it was every hour almost exactly.
We tried bowls, we tried towels, but she seemed to prefer turning
and throwing up on Mama, which sounds gross but somehow wasn't so gross.
Maybe because it was baby puke.
Maybe because we just felt so sorry for her.
Dada was lucky enough to experience it some too.
Grandma Rainy even had it happen to her once.

My mom cleaned everything up while I held Evangeline. 
Evie got to watch Polar Express for the first time.
Pretty much the whole thing.
She finally fell asleep right before the end.
I don't know if she was really watching.
We don't let her watch TV, but we didn't know what else to do to distract her.

We called our doctor and they were so shocked when we told them she'd thrown up 10 times already.
Her wet diapers were decreasing quickly, so they told us that 5-10 times is moderate for throwing up and 10 or more times is severe, so we'd have to take her to an ER if she threw up again.
She didn't. 
And she luckily had another wet diaper.

We thought she was better after she went to sleep and woke up puke free.
The next day she seemed better, so we headed to our next family visit in Atlanta.
She slept pretty much the whole way minus our two pit stops. 
The bad part about the trip was that she had two blow outs on the drive down.
Lucky for us I'd been so scared about her throwing up again, I brought a ton extra clothes for us all.

That night/morning I woke up to her gasping for breath and found her standing up in her bed.
She kept making these horrible sounds from her throat like she couldn't breath.
Then she'd cough, start to panic, and gasp for air again.
I grabbed Jeff and told him she wasn't breathing well.
I was so scared she had croup and we'd have to go to an Atlanta ER.
So sick.
 
I'd been to Atlanta (never been a fan) several times growing up on youth group temple trips , 
and if you've never seen it...
well an Atlanta ER + baby = something I never hope to experience.

We tried to steam her with a hot shower, but for some reason this Marriott decides no one needs hot water at 4:30 in the morning. 
So Jeff boiled lots and lots of water instead until the hot water came on around 7 that morning.

The one great thing about Atlanta was that is was so freezing cold there.
We were worried about her being in the cold while we were there but realized later that the cold is actually what helped her stop coughing for a while.

We left Atlanta a lot earlier than expected because we were so concerned about her.
She seemed better when we got back to NC, put her to bed, and I woke up to her again at 2 in the morning gasping for air.

She and I spent a lot of time in the steamy bathroom or outside in the cold humming this song.
I changed the words to say "everything is gonna be okay" and our
little Evie would calm right down every time.

Poor Jeff was so exhausted from driving and lack of sleep from the previous nights, he didn't even hear her until 7am, which proves how exhausted he was because he's a light sleeper and she was gasping for air/coughing the whole night.

This coughing/gasping turned into wheezing during the morning.
Jeff took over and let me get a little sleep before Evie wanted to nurse again.
Luckily for us I hadn't finished weening Evie and breastmilk was the only thing she'd drink/eat.

By noon when she was still wheezing we called the advice nurse.
She told us to go to the ER right away and when she heard Evie cough/gasp over the phone, she said to not delay.

We choose an ER that was out in the country to avoid the homeless people that might be at the ER in Winston. We don't regret our choice because I know the Winston ER would've been gross.
But this ER experience was ridiculous. 
A supposedly 18 minute wait turned into a 5 hour visit.
Lots of Evie screaming. Lots.

Two ROUGH rectal temperatures (her first experience of that ever),
one traumatic chest x-ray,
two hours of waiting for test results for a test that they'd never taken,
one RSV/flu suction,
  and two syringes of nasty medicine later...
we got our final diagnosis...
(in a thick Southern accent)

"She Got Dianosed wit da Kroop!"
and tested positive with RSV.

Hopefully 2013 ends better than 2012!








Tuesday, December 25, 2012

Merry Christmas


Because we are so lucky to have our adorable Evie, we did a Christmas card this year and mailed them out to family before we left for our North Carolina Christmas. 
(Woot woot!)

We just had to show pictures of our sweet girl :)
 Unfortunately, we are still poor students and our budget only allowed us to send our cards to family, but we wanted to wish all our friends Happy Holidays as well so...

Happy Holidays from San Francisco!

 Here is a brief summary of 2012...
Twenty Twelve has been a wonderful year of new experiences for our little Youngberg family.

Our sweet Miss Evie Mae just turned one on December 3rd. This year has been so fun to see her experience everything for the first time. She is crawling everywhere, can stand up by herself, but is taking her sweet little time before she takes those first steps, which we are perfectly happy about 

Evangeline has grown up fast and wants to do everything her mama and dada are doing. Jeff calls her a good “Lil’ Mama” because some of her favorite things to do are rocking, feeding, hugging, kissing, or singing (“Ahh”) to her baby dolls. She also is an avid reader of any book or magazine; however, she is partial to Paula Deen magazine and is especially interested in her dada’s business books lately.

While she does love singing along to Frosty the Snowman (“bump bump”) and she still loves her Kindermusik songs, Evie has also become very fond of her dada’s music, Mumford and Sons and Fun., and loves to dance/sing to them.

Evangeline is also a huge talker! We won’t list everything, but our favorites are “Dada bye-bye,” “cheese,” “the baby,” “wa wa ba ba” (water bottle), and “num num num num” (yummy).

If you were reading this and wondering why I was only talking about Evie then my job of capturing 2012 in a nutshell is done. It was the year of Evie. But for the few of you that want to still know about Jeff and me, please read on.

Jeff thinks he is really a dentist since he started seeing patients in UCSF’s dental clinic this year. And maybe he is since he has given me an exam and a cleaning. I was told to stay away from the candy canes

And me…well I’ve been loving being a mama to the most fun baby in the world, which I feel sums up my year quite nicely.

Love,
Jeffrey, Whitney, and Evangeline




 


...and Merry Christmas from NC :)
Minus Natalie's family :(

Does the tree seem tall?
Well it is.
Twelve feet baby!
That's how we do it (in NC).
What a great childhood memory.
Had to get my fill...


Evangeline loved getting her Christmas pjs on Christmas Eve plus her Christmas socks...






This is how we lured Evangeline to her presents Christmas morning...
 and it worked like a charm :)

And she loved opening presents again...
(she'd had a pre-Christmas Christmas in SF with Jeff's family. After her first birthday, her pre-Christmas, Christmas Eve at Nana's, Christmas Eve at Grandma and Grandpa's, and Christmas day, this girl has got the present opening thing down.)

 but even a one-year-old knows that the bigger the better!


 Can you tell I was tired?
Late night at Nana's.

and
Evangeline has loved seeing Nana!
What a Happy Christmas!

Monday, December 10, 2012

One year pictures...

 Miss Evie Mae had to get some special one year shots for the books :)




 
























What a wonderful first year!












Sunday, December 2, 2012

1st Birthday Party

 For Evangeline's 1st birthday, we had a party showing all her favorite things.
We tried to kept the food baby themed (mini cupcakes).
The best party about a December party is we were able to have hot chocolate with candy canes and with whole milk (it is a baby party after all).


A girlie reading canopy because Evangeline has been a reader since the beginning.
Most people don't believe us when we say this, but she just looks at books, page by page, all day every day. 
Her dada calls her a baby nerd. But we love nerds :)

You can't tell in the picture but on the window is a glitter lettered birthday sign :) You can't have a girl party without glitter right?

 Evie Mae has always loved train rides in her Target diaper boxes, so I made them look a little more appealing to her other baby friends using our Christmas and her birthday wrapping paper.
 
 In her reading spot before the party started. Her Grammy and Papa Chris arrived to find her reading books by herself in her canopy while we finished getting things ready.

 Having fun getting hugs from Lily.

 The last activity center for the babies was a mirror. Evangeline LOVES mirror play and always has. She has a full length mirror on the back of her bedroom door and she'll sit and talk to herself forever.

 She was so excited to have her bestie, Eden, come. 
Here she is trying to touch Eden (as usual). She kept trying to kiss her at the party. 
She loves Eden!

 Laughing with Lily.

We used battery powered lights so the babies could safely touch the lights. 

 
The babies had so much fun ripping the trains apart and tearing down the lights and pom poms, which we knew would happen so it was fun to watch. The lights lasted longer than anticipated :)
Babies love ripping things apart for fun, so
It's not a baby party until things are getting ripped apart!

We gave away bubbles to the kids who came since Evie loves bubbles and still is figuring them out, and what baby/kid doesn't love bubbles.

The things I did for me were the colors of the party. I tried to use a lot of pink and teal since my favorite book as a girl was called the Silver Slippers and the book is pink and teal. It even came with a silver slipper (ballet slippers) necklace. LOVED it! It was all about a ballerina. I tried to use pink pom poms to make it seem more ballerina-like. I just love anything to do with ballerinas + little girls. I'm still fascinated by ballerinas. I'll give the book to Evangeline when she's a little older I think.

Evie had a blast at her party and had so much fun with all her friends.
She is so lucky to have such nice friends and we were so happy to have everyone come celebrate in our 550 sq ft one bedroom home ;)



Saturday, December 1, 2012

1st Cake


Our Miss Evie Mae loved it!






And this is how it looked after she was through with it...